Ben Affleck Turns the Page

Ben Affleck admits the definition of his life was “annus horrribilis” in 2003.
In a new Details interview, he was quoted telling the magazine, “It’s hard to shake those sort of narratives. If you were looking at that one-liner on me in 2003, which was definitely the annus horribilis of my life,” he adds with a laugh, “… I made a bunch of movies that didn’t work. I was ending up in the tabloids. I don’t know what the lesson is, except that you just have to find your compass.”
Ben believes he was “short handed.” He did not like the label of being the guy whose “movies bombed,” and ending up in tabloids. Once immersed in the tabloid spotlight, he remembers thinking that in order to break free, “I just said, ‘I don’t want to do it anymore. This is horrible. I don’t want to be in this spotlight, this glare, in this way. It’s tawdry, it’s ugly, it’s oppressive, and it’s inane. So I’m going to try to get away.”
The Oscar winning actor/director turned his focus behind the camera, and his first two films – “Gone Baby Gone” and “The Town” were both critically acclaimed, surprisingly stylized films. Now, with his third film “Argo” opening October 12th and earning Oscar buzz, he’s further cementing his rep as an on-the-rise filmmaker. “I’m going to do something that takes me toward a place where the work that I do is reflective of what I think is interesting dramatically.” Affleck also has been acting a lot less, “It has to be a really good part, it has to be a director I want to work with.”
Times are different now for the 40-year-old. Married to Jennifer Garner in 2005, the couple has 3 children together and have largely managed to avoid any Bennifer-like histrionics. Affleck juggles the family life and his career, he says, so that “I could go home and be with my kids.”
“Running around after three kids is very trying,” he admits. But now everything has to compete with being with my family. I don’t want to be a stay-at-home dad. Work is very important to me. I like to work. So does my wife. But I need my work to mean something to me in order for me to not be home with them.”